09/11/2010 § Leave a comment
父母的移民大计, 家庭安置, 经济支持都已经有了交代; 然后呢?
大哥大嫂, 二哥二嫂; 已成家的男人有自己的担当, 是非对错都不需要他人的参与.
而身为家人, 无论面对任何情况, 我都希望能够兄弟一心. 接着呢?
小妹. 年底即将回家与小敖结婚, 再往后就要看她自己了.
7年来, 时光轻轻地在我身上留下 “到此一游” 的印记,
欣慰的是, 无论是对感情, 对事业, 或是对家庭,
“Good Will Hunting”(心灵捕手)的一段剧情对我感触良深:
“(Sean and Will are sitting together on a park bench. Will doesn’t look at him throughout the speech; he looks away. The scene ends with Sean’s walking away, leaving Will there, contemplating Sean’s words.)
Will: So what’s this? A Taster’s Choice moment between guys? This is really nice. You got a thing for swans? Is this like a fetish? It’s something, like, maybe we need to devote some time to?
Sean: I thought about what you said to me the other day, about my painting. Stayed up half the night thinking about it. Something occurred to me and I fell into a deep, peaceful sleep and haven’t thought about you since. You know what occurred to me?
Sean: You’re just a kid. You don’t have the faintest idea what you’re talking about.
Will: Why, thank you.
Sean: It’s all right. You’ve never been out of Boston.
Sean: So if I asked you about art you’d probably give me the skinny on every art book ever written…
Michelangelo? (beat) You know a lot about him. Life’s work, political aspirations, him and the pope, sexual orientation, the whole works, right? But I bet you can’t tell me what it smells like in the Sistine Chapel. You’ve never actually stood there and looked up at that beautiful ceiling.
Seen that…..If I asked you about women you’d probably give me a syllabus of your personal favorites. You may have even been laid a few times. But you can’t tell me what it feels like to wake up next to a woman and feel truly happy.
You’re a tough kid. I ask you about war, and you’d probably–uh–throw Shakespeare at me, right? “Once more into the breach, dear friends.” But you’ve never been near one. You’ve never held your best friend’s head in your lap and watched him gasp his last breath, looking to you for help.
And if I asked you about love y’probably quote me a sonnet. But you’ve never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable. Known someone could level you with her eyes. Feeling like! God put an angel on earth just for you…who could rescue you from the depths of hell.
And you wouldn’t know what it’s like to be her angel and to have that love for her to be there forever. Through anything. Through cancer. You wouldn’t know about sleeping sitting up in a hospital room for two months holding her hand because the doctors could see in your eyes that the term visiting hours don’t apply to you. You don’t know about real loss, because that only occurs when you love something more than you love yourself. I doubt you’ve ever dared to love anybody that much.
I look at you; I don’t see an intelligent, confident man; I see a cocky, scared shitless kid. But you’re a genius, Will. No one denies that. No one could possibly understand the depths of you. But you presume to know everything about me because you saw a painting of mine and you ripped my fuckin’ life apart.
You’re an orphan right? (Will nods) Do you think I’d know the first thing about how hard ! your life has been, how you feel, who you are because I read Oliver Twist? Does that encapsulate you? Personally, I don’t give a shit about all that, because you know what? I can’t learn anything from you I can’t read in some fuckin’ book. Unless you wanna talk about you, who you are. And I’m fascinated. I’m in. But you don’t wanna do that, do you, sport? You’re terrified of what you might say.
Your move, chief. (Sean stands and walks away.)”
人生最大的幸福: 你爱的人, 也在爱你!
当今中国有个怪现象, 始于香港: “先敬罗衣后敬人”!
开名贵跑车, 住千万豪宅, 这些不是所谓的梦想,
公众是群羊, 放心圈着养. 只要敢扮狼, 早晚全啃光.
当你迷茫失落时, 你会回头问自己:”What’s next!?”
03/11/2010 § Leave a comment